Welcome to Marriage Help
Keep the Game In Bounds
One of the great truths of life is that no one in the world can harm you as badly as the person who loves you most. That sounds really strange because the assumption going into marriage is that no one in the world is more unlikely to harm you than the one who …
Conflict in Marriage
Conflict is as much a part of married life as breathing is to our physical bodies. In marriage we usually underestimate how different we really are from each other. In these lessons you will learn that our differences are massive but never hopeless. Each …
Be the Spouse not the Parent
This is the third lesson in our discussion of the Parent-Child-Adult within each one of us. I will be honest. Some people tell me that they have difficulty getting their minds around the idea that we have three different people living inside our heads! It is …
The "Child" Within Us
This is the second of three articles on the discussion on the Parent-Child-Adult within us. The discussion about the "Child" part of our personality is much more fun. The Child is that automatic, built-in emotional core of who we are. It is not learned because …
Who's in Control?
I was a very young father who was coping with being a part-time church custodian, a full-time student as well as having our first toddler at home. At one point I became frustrated with my young son and yelled, "If you do that again, I’ll nail your hide to the …
Guilt and Grace
Nobody knows you better than your marriage partner. So no one can answer the question of how well you do your job as a husband or wife, better than they can. We all make mistakes. We don't do it right all the time. So how do you handle this kind of guilt? How …
Are You Drifting Apart?
Do you feel like you've drifted away from your spouse? How do you re-connect? How would you answer the puzzle we give you in this video? After you watch the video, drop me a note and let me know your answer. ....When you DRIFT Apart! from PastorBobDouglas on …
Making Marriage Work
There's never a day you should not be bringing your "A Game" into your marriage relationship. If professional athletes accept advice and take lessons to improve their game, we should be willing to learn new ways to improve our marriage. Listen to the video and …
No Sex Before Marriage? That Ain't Gonna Happen!
I can just hear the screams of protest when people in our culture hear that the Bible makes it very clear that sex is for a HUSBAND and WIFE….and for no one else. That means before the marriage ceremony as well as after the marriage ceremony and excludes …
Self Worth Comes From Others
Our self esteem does not come from within ourselves, but from others. The value that we receive from our spouse, our family, our employer, and friends is what gives us our self esteem. Your Self Worth does not come from Yourself from PastorBobDouglas on Vimeo.