Welcome to Marriage Help
A Message About Abuse
This is an unpleasant topic for everyone concerned. Some people hurt other people. Sometimes this happens unintentionally and other times it is done will full knowledge and intent. A Social Contract When I drive my car, I acknowledge and accept a “social …
The Greatest Fear of Women
The Bible says in the fifth chapter of Ephesians that the Greatest Fear of women is that they will be left alone and unloved….rejected. This can take several forms. This fear can be that the woman remains married but will be ignored or isolated. In its worst …
The Deepest Fear of Men
The Bible (Ephesians 5:33) points out the greatest need in the heart of a man is the fear of being unworthy of respect or approval. In common terms, we would say that man's deepest fear would be a fear of failure, fear of accomplishing nothing, fear of not …
Introduction to Our Greatest Fears
The Greatest Fear of Women and the Greatest Fear of Men The Bible tells us that there are deep, abiding fears with each person. They were created inside of each of us to help us become loving partners. These are not weaknesses or character flaws that must be …
Freedom from Hopeless Repetition
Rule #2. I love you just the way you are. Some things CAN'T be changed. Some things you couldn't change. I won't ask you to change these. Backgrounds of family life or our “walk of faith”, personality, values, or Gifts that God has blessed us with… are most …
Freedom from Extortion in Your Marriage
Rule #1: I love you. I will always love you. You are my husband/wife. I have pledged myself to help you, support you, and care for you. I’m not going to stop taking care of you. Most arguments begin when someone really wants something that they are not …
The Right Way to Manage Conflict in Your Marriage
If you are feeling trapped in a very bad place we can help you. We will show the right way to handle conflict in your marriage! We call it the Ten Rules to a Good Fight. You can read the Ten Rules to a Good Fight in a few minutes but you will not understand …
10 Rules to a Good Fight
Introduction After watching the introduction, use the links below to drill down into each lesson.
Welcome to Marriage Help
When I was growing up, my grandparents were business people in our small town. Because they were in the public view from daylight to dusk, most of their arguments were also public. They had never learned the "where and when" of working out their …